Respecting the rhythm of life and family traditions
Marriage opens a new door, where young people enter a lifestyle that has been maintained for many years. Don't rush to break things, observe and respect. Respect here is not about bowing your head, but understanding, a rather durable glue in many generations of families.
Dr. Emily Carter, a marriage psychologist at Oxford University, shared: The key to integration is not to try to be a copy of the husband or wifes family, but to show proper respect. When you respect their rhythm, they will open their hearts to you faster.
From meals, living hours to how to arrange the house, participate gently, not showing off. A greeting, warm eyes or asking about your health proactively also create a sense of trust.
Proactively share, keep a spirit of progress
Merger does not come from silence. Sharing enough about work and life, so that the family feels your sincerity. When there is a problem, instead of letting emotions squeeze in like a String, talk frankly but gently.
Another important thing: don't forget to accompany your partner in all situations. They are Interpreters to help you understand your new family, and also the one who needs you to protect the common values of a couple.
Timely compliments, humble attitude, and progressive spirit all create the image of a person who knows how to preserve harmony and cherish the home he has just entered. Marriage needs to be nurtured regularly like taking care of a tree's root, and integrating with both families is the first step for that tree of love to have enough roots to grow.
