Adversity is a turbulent transition period for both children and parents. At this age, children begin to seek their own identity, expand social relationships, and experience physical, emotional, and hormonal changes. This sometimes makes children sensitive, confusing and distant. Therefore, maintaining closeness and connection with children is a key factor in helping them develop healthily, confidently and have the ability to handle emotions well.
Listen to and Respect Your Children's camences
Create space for your child to share their feelings without judgment. Instead of always giving advice or instructions, parents should listen to school pressure, friends or personal worries. This helps children feel understood and safe.
Maintain regular communication
Communication is not only about talking directly but also expressed through caring daily activities: asking about school days, eating together, participating in family activities. Even short conversations every day can increase trust and intimacy.
Respect your children's private space
Adults are the time when children need to explore themselves and be independent. Instead of controlling too much, respect your child's boundaries and let them know that you are always ready to support when needed. This helps children become independent and maintain a positive relationship with their family.
Showing love and support
Spending quality time, praising efforts instead of just results and expressing affection regularly helps children feel unconditionally loved and supported. This companionship reduces stress, increases confidence, and encourages your child to share difficult topics.
Set an example and set flexible rules
Children learn a lot from the way their parents behave. Set an example in managing emotions, resolving conflicts, and communicating healthily. At the same time, establish flexible, clear but not too strict rules so that children understand their limits but still feel respected.
Encourage your interests and activities
Supporting children in sports, arts or volunteering helps children develop social skills, exercise and reduce stress. When parents care and participate with their children, the relationship will become more connected.
