Mr. H (31 years old), currently works in the field of communications and event organization in Ho Chi Minh City. Mr. H accidentally met his "other half" - Ms. N while traveling, because he had a "crush" on her, he proactively asked for her phone number.
After more than two years of dating, the couple decided to get married. However, before officially “living together”, Mr. H constantly made his future wife upset because of his womanizing habits.
Admitting that he was a chauvinist and could not control his anger when his future wife complained, Mr. H sought new joy and had an affair with another girl.
After more than a month of “going back and forth”, Mr. H was shocked when his lover announced that she was pregnant. This girl even went to Mr. H’s house to make a big deal out of it and demanded that he take responsibility.
Despite having an affair with another girl right before the wedding, Mr. H still received tolerance from Ms. N and the two still got married. However, Mr. H continued to disappoint his wife when his business failed, he was tricked by friends into running a restaurant, leading to a "hot loan" of 300 million VND. Not long after, the debt increased to 3.5 billion VND.
During the period of stress due to debt, Mr. H was still "old as usual", going out with another girl. Despite his "poor" circumstances, Mr. H still provided for his lover.
Faced with Mr. H's confusing behavior, Ms. N became suspicious and questioned him many times, but Mr. H denied it. It was not until Ms. N honestly shared about her "inability to have children" that Mr. H "came to his senses".
Mr. H confided: “My wife discovered that I was having an affair and revealed that she had polycystic ovary syndrome, making it difficult for her to have children. She said: “If I am sick like that, you should find another woman who can give birth to your child.” When I heard these words, I began to see that I had made too many mistakes for my wife.”
During the period of secretly having an affair with his lover, Mr. H was beaten unconscious by his lover's boyfriend and had to be taken to the hospital for emergency care.
Even though Ms. N knew that Mr. H was a womanizer, had affairs with one woman after another, and owed billions of dong, she did not complain. When Mr. H suggested selling the house they had saved up to pay off the debt, Ms. N immediately agreed. After that, the couple moved out and rented a house.
Listening to the story, director Le Hoang commented that Mr. H is a bad man because he repeatedly upsets the woman beside him. The male director emphasized: “People can have affairs when they are bored with their wives, but you had an affair before getting married, but your affair was discovered by your wife twice.
Having an affair is already a sin, but then it causes debt, from 300 million to 3.5 billion VND.
As for Ms. N, director Le Hoang was surprised that Mr. H's wife had a forgiving heart when she forgave his womanizing and agreed to sell the house to pay off his debt.
According to Mr. H, he participated in the program The Third Person as an apology to his wife. Not only did he admit his past wrongdoings, Mr. H also tried to correct his mistakes and save money so that their lives would be as stable as before.
