After nearly 40 years of association, the two have experienced many emotions, from sublimation, warmth to events, to learning to be patient, understanding and sharing together.
At the beginning of the program, MC Dinh Toan reminded me of the love story of the couple. Ms. Tuyet Nhung emotionally recounted that her love story with Mr. Minh Hung started when she was only 16 years old, he was 19. Despite being opposed by their families because they were too young, both of them still persevered and waited patiently until after 5 years of being together, they had the consent of their parents. For her, Mr. Hung was not only her first love but also her last.
A peaceful married life until her son turned 2 years old, Ms. Tuyet Nhung suddenly discovered that her husband had signs of "getting sunny". This news was revealed by her brother-in-law, forcing her to face the truth. Mr. Hung admitted and asked for forgiveness, explaining that because he often took and dropped off, feelings arose, but when the incident broke out, he decided to end it. Before the incident, Ms. Tuyet Nhung had two options: divorce or meet the other girl's family with her husband to clarify. Mr. Hung chose a second way.
Ms. Nhung recounted that that day she brought her son, marriage certificate and wedding photo, to her husband's lover's house. In front of the girl's parents, she affirmed that her marriage was legal and recognized by law and society. She hopes the two men will advise her daughter not to interfere in other people's families. Her straightforward, brave and confident behavior made the girl's parents agree, apologize and promise to advise her child. Thanks to that, the incident was closed, and Nhung decided to forgive and never repeat her old mistake.
Mr. Minh Hung admitted that he was extremely shy and uneasy when he had to take his wife to someone else's house, but it was his wife's ingenuity that helped him realize the value of the family. After the incident, he cherished his family more and accompanied his wife in all decisions.
In the program, Ms. Tuyet Nhung also shared about opening a coffee shop out of love, even though she had to stop because of disadvantages. Mr. Hung understands his wife's psychology, even though he knows the difficulties in advance, he still let her do what he wanted. Both said that they often discuss before making a joint decision, and when they make mistakes, Ms. Nhung always proactively apologizes to her husband.
Psychologist Dao Le Hoa An analyzed that apology in marriage is of great value, showing admitted mistake and arousing tolerance. He emphasized the difference between tolerance and complacency, saying that tolerance is an important factor for a long-term journey.
MC Dinh Toan commented that to achieve "harmony between husband and wife" is a process of cultivation. The fact that Mr. Hung - Ms. Nhung are willing to sit and tell old stories proves their maturity and attachment in marriage. Mr. Hung shared that in his eyes, his wife was still the same as when they first met. He often chooses to give in, avoid fierce debate to keep the air together.
