However, the Hai Duong player was unable to be his own leader and follow a development path commensurate with his ability. Of course, on a personal level, Trong Dai must take responsibility for going astray and going astray, but, looking a little more broadly, one can ask, was all the help given in the right way?
As revealed by coach Hoang Anh Tuan - who highly appreciates Trong Dai's professional abilities, as well as some teammates, there has been a lot of help for players who can play both positions. midfielder and midfielder. And perhaps, even if they don't say it out loud, the common point of the people who helped this player is "what can we do if we don't change!?".
Here, there are people who help with advice, there are people who help with finances, and there are also people who extend a hand by bringing them to the team or with professional work.
But, the question is, is helping and then letting the player "swim" in their own environment an effective way of helping? This is not a blame for those who tried to help Trong Dai overcome it, but because, even though they helped, they did not separate this player from the bad environment, the result of the help was still zero as usual. both have seen.
Some coaches in football teams have helped Trong Dai by bringing them to their teams, but is there enough depth and time for training? A coach's work is very busy, it is difficult to devote all his effort to any one individual. However, it cannot be said that there is no time for cases of "many talents, many disabilities". Paying more attention, caring a little more, giving confidence, taking the opportunity to play, building motivation little by little, it will be better than bringing the player back and letting the player struggle on his own, especially when focusing on competition. Then return to a familiar living environment, full of traps and no one to guide you.
Even, as coach Hoang Anh Tuan shared, 7 years ago, he advised Doan Van Hau - then close to Trong Dai, not to live the way Trong Dai does (living separately instead of living in a group). . That is, from quite early on, he was able to understand and grasp Trong Dai's problem.
After 7 years, of course, Trong Dai's bravery was too weak to be able to overcome temptations, to fall deeply into the fall, and not to understand everyone's help so that if he had to pay a certain price, he could not be blamed. Who…
Trong Dai's problem, by extension, will be the problem of Vietnamese football in training players comprehensively, both professionally and culturally, paying close attention to the issues of thoughts, feelings, and emotions. lifestyle, living environment... so as not to lose the same talents as before.
