The fact that many young people choose to live together before marriage is becoming more and more popular. Many opinions say that living together will help couples understand each other and get used to life and family responsibilities before deciding to get married.
However, a reality shows that whether or not young people should try before marriage will more or less lead to future effects on the relationship.
Increased risk of breakage
living together before marriage often lacks legal bonds and long-term commitments, making it easy for couples to break up and not thinking carefully when they have a conflict.
A study from the University of Denver shows that about 70% of couples live together before getting married, but many of them do not get married or divorce immediately after getting married.
living a dream before marriage can reduce the stability of a strong side relationship for couples.
Women affected by open thinking
Today's young people are affected by many of the open-minded thoughts and lifestyles of the West. Moving to live together without legal recognition, the family can have serious consequences for couples.
When both of them are not mature and promote their ego, it will make their life together complicated, tiring and psychologically affected, especially for girls.
Fear of getting married
The fact that many couples may be afraid when getting married after having tried their hand at each other is also a common psychological problem that psychologists have pointed out. The trial period will make couples recognize each other's problems, such as the way of life, viewpoints, spending and level of control over each other...
This is also an advantage for both of them to understand each other better, but sometimes it makes one of them "break their dream" about the other. This leads to a "fear" mentality when getting married.
Therefore, couples should consider carefully before deciding whether or not to live together. Let's discuss the responsibility towards both sides and the family to have a sustainable "test" (if any), helping to build a long-term relationship and towards a happy future.
