"I can't save anything"
The saying You cant accumulate anything or You dont know anything are all sentences that put pressure on children. Young children are easily affected by this type of saying. They are engraved deeply in the mind and gradually become self-conscious and self-conscious. That partly affects their personality, making them not dare to do what they want, not dare to take responsibility for anything.
Why cant you do it?
A parent's comparison will psychologically damage children, causing them to feel inferior a lot. Children will feel inferior to others and become hateful and boycott people compared to them by their parents.
Complimate children at the right time, instruct them if they do something wrong. Limiting your child to others will make them shy, quiet and closed down.
Follow your parents
Follow your parents instructions, dont argue is an imposing saying. Maybe, parents just want to be good for their children, so they want them to listen. However, this statement is Commanding in nature, not always it brings the desired effect. On the contrary, it will cause children to gradually lose initiative and form a sense of dependence on others. When they grow up, children will not be independent, autonomous and always find ways to rely on them, forgetting that their lives will be decided by them.
"Do you believe your mother called the police to arrest you?"
One of the things that parents often choose to use when threatening their children not to listen. This threat will not be effective if you want children to be good and obey. Advising children in the usual way and only letting them know where they are wrong, how to act to correct their mistakes, rather than using other strangers to threaten them.
