Hearing the story from an audience member who was the eldest sister who often shouldered the burden of the burning offering of the dead while the children were indifferent, Dong Dao expressed his sympathy. The female singer said that she herself is also the eldest daughter, having experienced the "all-in" situation.
However, instead of enduring, she chose to assign a job: those who have the conditions should contribute money, those who are more disadvantaged should contribute. According to Dong Dao, death anniversary is a humanistic tradition, a rare occasion for family unions, so letting one person worry about everything will create injustice and make parents even sadder.
In the second story, an audience member who is the youngest child and has to take care of his elderly parents alone also falls into a situation of self-pity. Dong Dao believes that the underlying cause stems from parents not training their children in sense of responsibility and fairness from an early age. The female singer emphasized: "When parents are healthy, they don't need to, but when they are weak, that is when we have to put aside our anger to serve together. If we do not fulfill our generosity, it will be very difficult to teach our children to live a truly love life in the future.
Dong Dao also frankly pointed out the reality: parents often love their children in difficult circumstances, and by default, children are well off and have to shoulder more. If parents do not transparently divide responsibilities, children will easily misunderstand and get resentful.
She advised families to organize meetings with all members to discuss frankly, thereby finding consensus. According to the female singer, enduring silence only makes the gap even longer, while speaking at the right time will keep the air together.
Through the theme "Sisters", Dong Dao sent a message: Every member has a duty, should not compare too much or shirk responsibility. Only when sharing and practicing the right things together, can the family truly be a peaceful place for parents to feel secure and their children to bond.
