Ms. K called the program, sharing her feelings about her husband who is used to being complacent and exaggerated. She said that she and her husband are both office workers with a living income. However, she was upset because her husband often showed off unreal successes.
Mr. D (her husband) often shows off his ownership of land in Cu Chi, profitable securities and a house for rent, while in reality, these assets do not belong to the couple.
The land in Cu Chi belonged to Mr. D's younger sister who was abroad and asked to buy it, but the securities were only confiscated after many years of losses, while the house for rent was the property of her husband's family. This made her feel ashamed and tired because of her husband's "canvas" habits.
After listening to Ms. K, artist Ngan Quynh said that she had also encountered many similar "explosive" cases, even from her husband.
The female artist humorously said: "I have met many people about men who like to show off their space, my husband has a little too much. But his style is not too much. I see many people just accepting others as theirs, that is all worth it. As for my husband, he has his own achievements but is just a little complacent.
However, the "national mother-in-law" believes that sometimes, the contrast in couple personality helps the marriage become more lasting.
MC Phuong Uyen admitted that in daily life, it is inevitable to meet people with the habit of "exploding" like Mr. D. However, the female MC commented that Mr. D's "explosion" level had not reached the level of red alert. She emphasized: "He just likes to show off to satisfy his ego, not intends to deceive or take advantage of others".
From the perspective of a wife, artist Ngan Quynh advised that husband and wife should talk frankly to avoid escalating stress. Ms. K needs to remind her husband every day about the consequences of speaking the truth, to avoid being criticized and hurting relatives. Because if the habit of "exploding" continues, it can lead to wrong thinking, even causing unnecessary controversy when the truth is exposed.
In the second story, Ms. N sent a letter to the program, sharing about her biological brother who had a habit of showing off so much that the whole neighborhood gave him the nickname "Mr. Tu No". To overcome this situation, Ms. N's family decided to correct it right away every time Mr. Tu was about to "break out". However, after a few times like that, Mr. Tu gradually became less complacent but turned to anger his family because he thought they had made him lose his face.
Artist Ngan Quynh said that if she were a relative of "Mr. Tu No", she would not hesitate to stand by her family to support him, and at the same time find a way to help him change.
Sharing about the reason, the female artist expressed: For the family, it is a place of comfort, the most genuine support. Difficulties and conflicts in the family can make us feel heartbroken, but those are also lessons to help us mature. It is better to go out in society, where criticism can cause deeper damage, even make us fall.
