In the first story, Ms. G called the program to express her feelings when "the younger sister with her husband" was still 30 years old and lacked independence because her mother-in-law had taken care of her since she was a child.
Not only that, even though she is 30 years old, Ms. G's brother-in-law also had to let his mother dry clothes when meeting her boyfriend.
The depraved personality caused Ms. G's husband and her brother-in-law to argue tensively, leading to not seeing each other's faces.
Hearing this situation, Meritorious Artist Van Khanh found it difficult for Ms. G's brother-in-law to change. That is the result of the living environment and the luxury of those around them.
Dr. To Nhi A believes that mothers need to take drastic actions, end the cover-up, and at the same time create opportunities for their daughters to face real difficulties.
In the second story, Ms. M sent a letter to the program and expressed her concern when her beloved mother pampered her younger brother too much. This made the "youngest son" refuse to be independent, instead, he also took advantage and caused debt.
At the peak, Ms. M and her brother discovered that all the money that they gave their mother was given to their youngest child by her mother, leading to fierce controversy, making the family relationship tense.
According to female artist Van Khanh, she herself also encountered a similar situation. Because she wanted her child to focus on studying, she hired a maid. This accidentally made her child dependent and unwilling to touch anything. Therefore, Van Khanh chose to patiently guide and explain to her child little by little, hoping that her child would gradually change her perception.
In the face of the above situation, Dr. To Nhi A gave a solution, instead of trying to change, what needs to be done is for Ms. M and her brother to set clear limits in financial support for their mother. At the same time, both of them still remained filial to their mother and observed her and helped when needed.
In addition, Dr. To Nhi A hopes that mothers need to realize that being strict at the right time is also a way to love their children.
