At the beginning of the program, MC Hoang Oanh invited Dr. Bui Hong Quan (Lecturer at Ho Chi Minh City University of Industry) to explore the secret box. Dr. Hong Quan guessed that the child was harboring many thoughts and things he wanted to say when what he sent was a sad emoticon. Appearing on the program, Dang Khoi explained the reason he chose the sad emoticon: "Every time I see my mother angry, I am also sad."
Dang Khoi currently lives with his mother and maternal grandparents, while his father lives with his paternal grandmother. Sharing with Dr. Bui Hong Quan, Ms. Ngoc Yen - Dang Khoi's mother said that the couple divorced when Dang Khoi was 5 years old. His mother is the one who accompanied Dang Khoi growing up.
Dang Khoi shared with MC Hoang Oanh that he lives at home with his grandmother. Every night when his mother hasn't come home from work and it's raining, he worries that his mother will get wet. Not knowing what to do, he chooses to "act up", such as taking his mother's computer without permission and refusing to go to bed early. He said: "I have to be really naughty at home so that my grandmother has to call my mother to come home because I want her to stay home and play with me." At times like that, his mother gets very upset and yells at Khoi.
Appearing on the show, Ms. Ngoc Yen could not help but be moved and extremely surprised when hearing her child's confidences because she had never heard her child say this to her mother. She was quite busy with her oriental medicine work, only playing with her child at night. The day she had off was the day her child went to school, so the mother and child had very little time together.
Ms. Ngoc Yen shared that Dang Khoi is very naughty, likes to explore, sometimes fills the house with water to explore. She herself also has the psychological pressure of raising the child alone, taking care of his food, sleep and teaching him how to grow up, so she is very stressed. Whenever the child is stubborn and disobedient, she will scold him. Sometimes she is also afraid that the child is autistic and has psychological problems because he does not have enough love from both his father, mother and grandparents.
What Dang Khoi wishes for his mother is: "When I do something wrong, my mother should teach me instead of yelling or hitting me." Psychologist Dr. Bui Hong Quan commented that Dang Khoi clearly distinguishes between yelling and teaching because he perceives that his mother's actions are just yelling and not teaching, although his mother still has the intention of teaching in them. Through the sharing of her child and Dr. Bui Hong Quan, Ms. Ngoc Yen realized that she was quite wrong in the process of teaching her child, just because she did not have time to be with her child, she wanted to teach quickly, using oppressive measures to make her child obey her. Besides, the child's mother also hopes to be able to listen to her child and use a method that does not affect her child's psychology.
