With the theme "Hieu Bao" at "Chi em giai roi" on VTV9 on the evening of March 2, Ms. Q called the program to share about the awkward situation related to reporting Hieu Bao to parents.
Ms. Q wanted to show her filial piety by buying gifts for her mother, but every time she did so, her mother always showed an unsatisfied attitude, even flatly criticizing her, making Ms. Q feel hurt. However, when Ms. Q gave him money, her mother used it to hang around and was cheated. Therefore, Ms. Q decided to give gifts to her aunt, this action made her mother feel sorry for herself.
After hearing Ms. Q's feelings, MC Phuong Uyen expressed sympathy: "I see this as a story not unique to anyone. When I bought gifts to give to my parents, they often criticized me, and every time I did that, I was very shy. But when I gave them money, my parents did not take it, and I wanted to buy gifts to show my concern, even though I knew my mother really liked that item, when it arrived, she was not happy.
According to Meritorious Artist Oc Thanh Van, in addition to gifts or gifts, being hospitable is about caring for, caring for and loving parents every day. Currently, the artist's family only has two mothers (biological mother and mother-in-law), so the couple "favorite" them all the time. Even Oc Thanh Van revealed that her children are very affectionate and pamper the two women.
I think this is a way for us to repay the person who has nurtured us all our lives. And this is done every day, not waiting until Tet or an important occasion to have a gift. This will often become a waste or make parents feel sorry for their children's money, so they will find a reason to refuse to accept gifts," Oc Thanh Van shared.
Summarizing Ms. Q's problem, Meritorious Artist Oc Thanh Van emphasized the importance of understanding the necessary needs of parents to meet them in a timely manner. Dr. To Nhi A advised Ms. Q to consolidate her knowledge about "playing hui", the effects of this action can cause "losing money" and psychological impact.
