Ms. X sent a letter about the program expressing her awkwardness when facing the choice of "sending your child to the paternal or maternal home". The reason comes from: "Every year I send my child back to my parents. This summer, the family agreed to send my child abroad because every summer, when he comes back to his parents, he learn some bad habits such as playing cards, using slurred speech... I don't want that to happen to my child, so this summer, my husband and I agreed to send my child abroad, but I was still afraid that my family would be sad, I didn't know what to do."
According to BTV Ngo Nhu Quynh, sending children to their paternal and maternal homes or to their maternal and maternal homes during the summer is a positive thing. However, she hopes that parents need to carefully calculate the safety and contact environment of their children in their hometown, because that is their duty and responsibility, and should not blame their grandparents.
Regarding Ms. X's "fault" when her child learned bad habits while at her parents' house, according to BTV Ngo Nhu Quynh, it was an act that showed that she was not close in raising her child. The BTV girl hopes that Ms. X will learn from her experience when sending her grandchild to go to the parents' house. In addition, to avoid making the family sad when sending their grandchildren to their parents this year, TV series reporter Ngo Nhu Quynh advised Ms. X to cleverly explain that sending her grandchildren to their parents is to help their children attend appropriate classes and summer activities. According to her, this is a way to ensure the benefits of her children and maintain harmony in the family.
Sharing about her personal experience when facing her child's summer vacation for the first time, TV host Ngo Nhu Quynh felt surprised, confused and even wanted to " get rid of her body". "I'm used to the fact that my child only goes to school for 8 hours and then I send him up to work, I'm only responsible for the part of going home from school," the female TV host recounted. However, she promptly realized that it was a wrong thought. After changing their thinking and prioritizing their children's experiences as the top priority, BTV Nhu Quynh realized that working with their children during the 3 summer months has become simpler.
In the difficult situation of not knowing whether to send their children to their paternal or maternal homes during the summer, Dr. To Nhi A offers a practical solution that parents should ask their children's own opinions on whether they want to go back to their paternal or maternal homes. At the same time, she also advised parents to ask grandparents directly whether they were willing and eligible to accept their grandchild. This approach not only respects children's wishes but also shows sophistication, avoiding causing unnecessary pressure or misunderstanding on both sides of the family.
Through the story of the topic of Summer vacation, Dr. Ngo Nhu Quynh with the experience of a mother, she hopes that parents need to be aware of taking responsibility for "No one has the obligation to take care of our children or make our children a better version of themselves over a summer".
