This is a journey not only of love but also related to children, property and social prejudices.
An audience member opened with a confession about her mother-in-law having a new boyfriend in her late teens. She takes care of her appearance, often goes to health clubs, buys gifts and even gives her boyfriend a bicycle worth nearly 10 million VND. The daughter-in-law worried: "I don't object to you finding joy in old age, but I'm wondering about her charm and the possibility of affecting your property and children."
In this situation, singer Doan Trang said: "If you want to advise your mother and daughter-in-law, you have to be very skillful and have a behavioral technique to avoid hurting them. Look closely at whether this relationship really makes you happy.
MC Phuong Uyen asked: The daughter-in-law's worries stem from the fear of losing property or the fear of her mother's joy affecting the family?
Dr. To Nhi A analyzed: The core is still the story of assets. If you are only worried about your mother being cheated, the simpler way to handle it is to just keep her happy, and at the same time find evidence from the outside to protect her. But when in love, the reason is often blurred, and all obstacles are difficult to handle.
According to her, the most practical solution is to be transparent in assets: "I can advise you to clarify your documents to avoid making a statement. Through that, we can also measure the attitude of that man when it comes to money.
At the same time, Dr. To Nhi A emphasized: Children only have the right to the inheritance of their father. If the property belongs to her mother, she has full authority to decide. We should not neglect that it will definitely belong to us.
The program also recorded another story from a single mother for many years, now standing at the threshold of love for a man nearly 10 years older than her. She was wondering why her two children had not accepted the "new person", even though he often visited and gave gifts.
Singer Doan Trang compared: "Going forward is like starting a new project, having to prepare both mentally, financially and especially the plan to help children integrate".
Dr. To Nhi A recommends: First, the mother must find the reason for the child's objections, second, adjust the approach of the "bearer" and third, open a dialogue channel for the child to express their emotions.
She also warned: "Don't promise your child that you won't remarry because it could become a commitment that makes them feel betrayed later. Keep your language open so that you won't be shocked when your mother changes."
In conclusion, MC Phuong Uyen said: "All good things need time to be cultivated". Dr. To Nhi A affirmed: Love is legitimate at all ages, even when you are old. The important thing is to have true love.
