At the beginning of the program, MC Phuong Uyen introduced the story of an audience member who was often abused by her husband every time she was drunk. The husband apologized after the beatings and blamed the Encyclists, but this long loop of things left the family helpless. In this situation, actress Phuong Dung said that women's resignation only prolonged the tragedy and the risk of serious damage was inevitable.
The actress admitted that she had witnessed a man beating his wife but did not dare to intervene directly because she was afraid of danger. She emphasized that a person who is cruel enough to abuse his wife can also assault outsiders. However, Phuong Dung advised women not to stay silent but to find ways to dialogue, record evidence and even boldly choose to separate or end it to protect themselves.
From a professional perspective, Dr. To Nhi A analyzed that alcohol is not the root cause but is only an excuse for the violating nature. Many women, because of their affection, concern for their children or fear of social prejudice, choose to be patient, thereby unintentionally legalizing acts of violence. According to her, domestic violence is not only a private issue but also related to the law and basic safety of people.
Another case shared in the program shows the danger of a husband not only abusing his wife but also beating his mother-in-law when she stops him. Actress Phuong Dung commented that this is no longer a problem of tea, but a forced, unacceptable nature. If not stopped soon, the consequences could be out of control.
According to Dr. To Nhi A, family plays a key role in helping victims escape the cycle of violence. Instead of blaming, they need to accompany, create a sense of safety and provide specific solutions for women to confidently step out of a toxic relationship. She emphasized: "An unintentional punch can leave permanent damage. We cannot take the decision to protect ourselves lightly or delay it."
Closing the program, MC Phuong Uyen affirmed: "Violence is never the solution to any problem." Actress Phuong Dung also advised that if women continue to suffer silently, that pain will spread and affect the whole family.
Dr. To Nhi A calls it a "warning bell": true love must bring safety, cannot be impersonated by violence.
