In the program, MC Phuong Uyen recounted the story of a young girl who encountered obstacles due to religious differences between two families. Listening to the story, famous singer Ngoc Anh expressed her sympathy, saying that love is sometimes not enough to overcome the belief barrier. She shared that the thing that makes things difficult is not the two of them in love, but the family - a place that contains tradition and its own values. Ngoc Anh believes that parents need to orient their children early so that they understand and prepare their mindset for marriage, and at the same time advise them to listen and consider what really brings happiness to their children.
Dr. To Nhi A raised the issue of the maturity of love, saying that if you are not steadfast enough to protect your choice, you should not rush to get married. Love is an emotion, but marriage is reason and responsibility, she said, and affirmed that only when both of them truly understand and respect each other, can they overcome the difference to build a sustainable life.
The second story in the program revolves around the conflict after the wedding due to misunderstandings about the talent admission ceremony. According to Dr. To Nhi A, the problem comes from the two families' preference for social status and public opinion, which is the true happiness of the young couple. She emphasized the role of communication and the initiative to explain between the couple to avoid misunderstandings.
Famous singer Ngoc Anh advises that on important days, the most important thing is to stay calm, avoid letting ceremony or money overshadow joy. "W wedding money or gifts are just a form, what is more valuable is the way of behavior and the filial piety of the children," she said.
In conclusion, the two guests agreed that marriage can only last when it is built on understanding and respect. Marriage and love are two different things love requires emotions, but marriage requires courage and responsibility, concluded Dr. To Nhi A.
Episode 46 of "Chi em deto thu" will continue to air at 6:35 p.m. Sunday, November 16, 2025 on VTV9 channel.