In today's life, many women have gone through a relationship and then continued to marry a man without a family. Foreigners look at it, there may still be prejudices that say they are not compatible, but many couples have overcome the prejudice and lived happily.
Thu Hoai (Thai Binh) got married when she was just 20 years old. However, Hoai's marriage only lasted for 3 short years. After divorcing while her child was still in poor health, Hoai left her husband's house and started her life from the beginning. With his abilities and educational qualifications, along with support from his family, 5 years later, Hoai had a full life with his young daughter.
However, taking a step back with Hoai was still a problem, because she had not really overcome the shock after the breakdown of her marriage. Until she met Hoang, a man who was not married, or in other words, Hoang was a newborn. The two developed feelings for each other because of their similar knowledge and lifestyle.
However, Hoai encountered many obstacles from Hoang's family because she was a woman who had been on a boat before. Determined not to let go of Hoang, Hoai tried to prove to Hoang's family that she was a brave, capable and financially independent woman.
Or in the case of Khanh Chi (Hanoi), when Khanh Chi and her husband got married, she had gone through a relationship, and her husband had never even loved anyone, Khanh Chi was her husband's first love.
According to Chi, at first, her husband seemed a bit shy when he learned that Chi had broken up in their marriage. Chi is one year older than her husband and has more life experience than her husband. But then, with her own charm, Chi's husband still told her: "I don't care, just be mine in the future".
Currently, Khanh Chi has been married for 5 years and is very happy with a beautiful daughter. When asked: "Taking a wife older than me but having experienced a marriage, how do you feel? , Chi's husband often replied that it was a feeling of love, care and protection. Maybe because the woman who has experienced that has a "sister" mentality.
Previously, society had a strict view of women who had been on a boat. But now, the perspective on them is different.
It is not that women get divorced and have " problems". Moreover, they also showed their strength and courage when they were ready to step through a marriage that was not as they expected. Women after divorce still have the right to wish for happiness.
Women who have been married or divorced are no different from "golden years of trying the fire", have matured and strongly overcome the pain of marriage.
For a woman who has been married, what they need is not money or status from a new man but the safety and sincerity of the other person.
Women who break down and make things still believe in love but have a mature recognition and assessment. They will pay more attention to the other person's ability to get along than their appearance or abilities.
Women who have gone through a broken relationship will also know how to love and appreciate themselves more, know where their value is, know what the marriage needs, what they need so that when they do it again, they will not make mistakes again.
