The situation of children being anorexic, holding on for a long time, refusing to sit at the dining table is a nightmare for many families. Many parents have to run after and feed each spoon, both coaxing and begging, even scolding to make their children eat. However, the more they force their children, the more they are afraid of meals, leading to negative reactions and prolonged anorexia.
According to nutrition experts, children not consciously eating is often related to living habits, psychology and how parents react during meals. If adjusted correctly, children can completely form active eating habits without being forced.
Below are 4 things parents should note to help their children eat and drink consciously every day.
1. Don't turn meals into pressure
When parents scold or threaten, children easily develop a fear of eating psychology. The more stressful the meal, the more children resist. Parents should maintain a gentle atmosphere, avoid arguing and do not force children to eat at all costs.
2. Create a fixed eating time frame and limit snacking
Many children are anorexic due to eating too much snacks or drinking milk close to meal times. Parents should build a clear meal schedule, limiting confectionery and soft drinks so that children feel hungry at the right time.
3. Let your child participate in the meal preparation process
Children are often more excited when choosing dishes, helping to pick vegetables or arranging bowls and chopsticks. This helps children feel that they have a role in the meal, thereby making it easier to cooperate and eat more consciously.
4.Praise at the right time and respect your child's feeling of fullness When your child eats well, parents should immediately praise them to motivate them.
Conversely, if your child is full, parents should respect them instead of forcing them to eat more.When respected, children will eat more comfortably and proactively.
In fact, helping children eat consciously does not lie in forcing them to eat a lot, but in creating the right habits and maintaining a positive mentality during meals. When parents are patient and consistent, children will gradually eat consciously and family meals will also be much lighter.