The first case was a girl who met a boyfriend through an app for 4 months. The man said he was divorced and did not use social media, but later she discovered that he had a wife and happily expressed it through videos on TikTok.
The shock came from her realized that she had become someone who accidentally ruined the happiness of another person's family. She ended the relationship but wondered if she should tell her wife the truth, because "if he could lie to her easily, he could also lie to his wife and other women".
Before this story, singer Hai Yen said that the dating app was not a "mentor", because "there were many couples who met each other there and ended up in a very happy marriage". The problem lies in the honesty and sense of responsibility in each individual.
Dr. To Nhi A added that in the digital age, checking information, accounts, and traces on social networks is easier, but deceiving can happen in any environment. Therefore, social media users must be alert and proactive in verifying when starting a relationship.
The second story is the tragedy of a woman who divorced her husband and lived together as husband and wife with a man who worked as a construction worker for more than 4 years without knowing that he had a family. Only when she witnessed him making an appointment with his wife and children at a hotel to give money did she realize that she was taking advantage of both her feelings and money. However, she still hopes that if he leaves his family to come to her, everything can "seem like never happened before".
Singer Hai Yen called it "blind love", while Dr. To Nhi A affirmed: "This man does not love you at all, he only comes back when he needs money to support his family". As a third person, women are not only not protected by the law but also have to live in poverty if they break up a family. According to the doctor, leaving an un statusless, unsafe, and painful relationship is still the only way to step into the dark.
Concluding, MC Phuong Uyen emphasized that the most important thing for women is not only to forgive or blame men, but also to learn to forgive themselves, bravely overcome mistakes to move towards a more peaceful and worthy life.
