From the beginning, Oc Thanh Van shared that love in the family is not always distributed equally, and sometimes unintentional words of defense make children feel that they are not being listened to.
The situation arose when psychologist Master Nguyen Hai Uyen offered a crab-shaped toy with broken claws. Kha Han said that this is a toy she loves very much but was damaged by her younger sister when she went to school. Despite repeated reminders, her younger sister continued to break things, while her parents often only said: "I'm still young".
This is what makes Kha Han feel unfair. The little girl shared that her younger sister already knows how to eat and play, so she is no longer too young to not understand. Once, when her younger sister took a toy and put it in water, Kha Han scolded her, but she was reminded by her parents, causing her to be angry and go outside to sit alone.
Kha Han's mother said that she used to be the only grandchild in the family, so she was loved and pampered. However, since having a younger sibling, Kha Han was once unhappy and expressed that she did not like having a younger sibling. Small conflicts accumulated over time made the distance between the two sisters increasing.
When asked if she still loves her younger sibling, Kha Han still affirmed her feelings for her, but hoped her parents could listen and defend her more. She also hoped her parents would spend time caring for her, especially on weekends when the whole family is at home.
Hearing her son's sharing, Kha Han's mother was moved to tears and hugged her son. She admitted that she had not really balanced her time for her children due to economic pressure, but promised to try to change and spend more time taking her children out to play.
From this story, Master Nguyen Hai Uyen believes that parents should not only ask older siblings to yield to younger siblings, but need to establish clear rules in the family. Determining the ownership of toys or creating private space will help children understand and respect each other more.
Closing the program, Oc Thanh Van emphasized that fairness in the family is not about sharing everything equally, but about each child feeling loved and listened to in their own way.
