Minh Hoang (9 years old) was moved when sharing two somewhat simple wishes: Mom, stop using the phone to play with me andom, andom, don't argue anymore.
According to Minh Hoang, although he really likes to play "prisoning" with his mother, he is rarely responded to because "mother keeps pinning her head into the phone". Even when she has free time, her mother often says she is busy, even advising her child to... play with the phone herself. Another sadness of mine was witnessing my parents arguing, even though I had tried many times to " reconcile" them.
Hearing the story, Oc Thanh Van said that she herself - with experience as a mother of three - understands the feelings of children when they lack direct care from their parents. She emphasized: "Just by spending a little time on the phone, we can focus all our attention on our children. That is more important than any gift or promise.
The female MC acknowledged that work pressure and technology habits easily make parents unintentionally " absent" during their childhood. However, children cannot wait until their parents are done with their work or free time to be loved, because their years of maturity pass very quickly. Just 15 minutes a day of playing with your child, listening to him talk, is enough to help him feel loved and understood, said Oc Thanh Van.
She also advised parents to proactively create "no equipment space" in the family - such as dinner or around bedtime - for the whole family to chat and connect. Maintaining harmony between parents is also the biggest spiritual gift for children, because children learn to behave and build family models from their own parents.
In conclusion, Oc Thanh Van expressed her hope that Minh Hoang's story will become a gentle but strong reminder, helping parents balance work, equipment and quality time with their children. My dream is not big, but the most important thing is to play with my mother, to see my parents love each other every day, she said.