Recently, actor Huynh Hieu Minh rarely confided in a podcast program. He frankly said: "I have helped too many ungrateful people". The actor also for the first time looked back at his "too good person" personality - always having difficulty refusing others and therefore being disappointed many times.
On September 11, the keyword "who Huynh Hieu Minh is referring to" quickly became a hot topic on Weibo, attracting the attention of the online community.
In an interview, Huynh Hieu Minh said that he had helped many people but realized that a significant part of them did not know how to appreciate it. When needing help, they tried every way to win over, but after achieving their goal, they disappeared. Even when the helper wanted to get back what belonged to them, they turned to blame back.
The actor used money as an example: "Today I only have 10 dong in my pocket, seeing you in difficulty, I gave you 5 dong. But people who are not grateful may think:'You have 10 dong but only give me 5 dong, too stingy'. They don't think that I myself am also in difficulty but are still willing to share.
According to Huynh Hieu Minh, the most frightening thing is this way of thinking. He also admitted that he used to like being called a "good person", but now he realizes that if there are no limits, being always ready to help others will only make himself exploited and eroded.
Huynh Hieu Minh believes that because he does not know how to refuse, he has done too many things that are not worth doing, helped too many people who should not help and wasted the energy that could be spent on personal development.
He decided to give up the image of an unlimited "good person", and at the same time believes that kindness also needs boundaries. Helping others should bring real value, instead of making yourself pay the price.
In fact, in an interview in 2023, Huynh Hieu Minh once shared a similar view. He said he had encountered many cases where people who were helped believed that success completely came from their own efforts.
Huynh Hieu Minh did not name anyone specifically. However, his statement quickly became a topic of discussion and led to many speculations.
Netizens mentioned Angelababy's ex-wife, saying that Huynh Hieu Minh once supported her in her career, from connecting to sign a contract with Hoa Nghi to introducing her to participate in the program "Keep Running". Some people linked the new sharing to the relationship between the two after Angelababy became famous and when their marriage ended.
Diep Kha's ex-girlfriend was also mentioned, based on the ending relationship and the controversies that once revolved around her. In addition, some opinions suggest that Huynh Hieu Minh is only talking in general about the artists or partners he has supported in the entertainment industry.
Besides, many netizens believe that these may simply be shares stemming from emotions and a look back at Huynh Hieu Minh's life, and not necessarily aimed at any specific individual.
