In a conversation with Lao Dong reporters, Cuong Ca shared that after many years of marriage, he realized that a happy family is not a family without conflicts but a place where all members always know how to put themselves in each other's shoes to share.
According to the actor, the philosophy of life he always remembers is "boiling rice with small fire". Every time a dispute occurs, one person should know to step back so that both have time to calm down.
When one person is angry, the other should know how to take a step back. If both put more fuel into the fire, the conflict will be bigger," the actor shared.
Cuong Ca believes that leniency is not accepting losses but a way to maintain long-term relationships.
Sometimes I accept a little disadvantage, be a little quiet or temporarily leave the debate so that both of us can calm down. When emotions have subsided, everything will be easier to talk to each other," he expressed.
According to the actor, he and his wife are lucky to live with their parents, so they receive a lot of support in taking care of their children.
Living together for many generations also has times of differences arising. However, Cuong Ca said that what reassures him is that both his mother and wife are people who know how to listen, willing to share to solve problems together.
Living together, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law sometimes find it hard to avoid times when they don't understand each other. But fortunately, my mother and wife are both emotional people, know how to listen, so everything is resolved. I also try to be a bridge so that the two of us always find common ground," he said.
The actor revealed that in addition to his busy life, he still tries to maintain romance in marriage. Occasionally, the couple spends private time going to the movies, having dinner or taking each other for a walk like when they first fell in love.
The actor said: "When you have chosen to accompany each other, cherish that choice. Everyone should try to look at the good points of the other person, build a home together and create a growing environment for the children with full love from both parents.
Cuong Ca's real name is Chu Manh Cuong, born in 1987 in Hanoi, currently working at the Voice of Vietnam Radio Theater.
He used to study at the Faculty of Traditional Drama, Hanoi University of Theater and Cinema. After graduating, he pursued his passion of singing and acting in Cheo, but also became attached to the small screen through impressive comedy roles.
