For Koreans, especially in East Asia, people often think that women must devote themselves to their families, their husbands for their children.
That is a custom and practice, but in modern society, this does not have much meaning because women do not necessarily have to give up everything they have, quit their jobs to stay at home to support their family. If your beauty is out of place and your husband lacks concern, then perhaps a woman needs to seriously consider and worry carefully about herself.
It is truly the civil status of a woman born to be a mother, a wife, take care of her husband's food and water, and take care of her children to take care of all the work. For them, there is no time to enjoy their own entertainment. Many women find joy in their daily activities by cooking for housework and worrying about their husbands and children. They also often lament that their work is endless, taking one thing after another.
My neighbor, 28 years old this year, is a testament to "living" in not loving yourself. After starting a family, she no longer works, even though she was a bachelor of economics at a prestigious university.
When asked, she smiled and said she wanted to wholeheartedly take care of her husband and children. After 3 years of marriage, she gradually became more plump, her body also cracked because of her poor appearance, causing her beauty to fade. The housework was a concern for her, he didn't have to touch his hands and feet to do anything.
She is so hard-working, but in return, what did she get from her husband? That is the constant torment. He works as a specialist for a bank, his monthly salary is also stable, but he is passionate about playing lottery, so each time he receives a salary, he only gives her a little, the rest is spent on gambling to get lucky.
Then gradually, she owed her husband so much that the creditor hired someone to destroy the family life... She had to cry with tears, busy borrowing money from everywhere to help him pay the large debt.
He not only learned a lesson but also had a hard time, criticizing his wife for being unattractive, un talented, and just being greedy. At this time, she was shocked to realize that if she did not love herself, women would be the ones who suffered the most.
Now that it is nearly 30 years, her husband has left her, there is no job, the mother and daughter are helpless and know who to rely on? She soon realized that she had been buried in a tragedy when she had been immersed too long in the role of a hard-working woman who gave everything to her husband and children.
