Yougov's research shows that 70% of Americans talk about relatives and rumors in their family; 64% share about friends and 58% exchange information about superiors.
Yougov put the above behavior into the gossiping group, also known as gossip. Normally, people tend to criticize, see this as an incorrect behavior.
But according to the doctor, the psychiatrist and medical adviser Charles Sweet, gossiping can be considered a "form of social cohesion" in certain cases.
Sharing with Newsweek, Dr. Charles Sweet explained that gossiping with negative behavior is a concept that deeply ingrained in the psychology of many people. In fact, this can bring benefits.
Social connection, community
Alexandra Hoerr - clinical therapist, founder of Optimum Joy Clinical Counseling believes that gossip can be used as a way to care about each other, instead of lowering others.
"I see this very much in the world of dating, where women will talk to other women about their romance and give advice.
In this case, talking is not a malicious action but plays a warning role in what they see, and preventing others from getting into the unsafe path, "Alexandra Hoerr said.
The female expert affirmed that gossip could create social relationships. In particular, for those who have a common experience, they easily empathize, take a new step in the connection.
Researchers at Stanford University concluded that good rumors for social groups. Research in 2024 produced results and rumors that helped spread the information and reputation of a better person, helping them connect with individuals and organizations with the same tone.
Relieve emotions
In many cases, gossip will marry others as the center of the exchange. It also brings a certain usefulness in helping individuals relieve emotions, have the opportunity to express their views on what they think.
Alexandra Hoerr shared: "Being heard is a clear benefit, good for mental health. If something is weighing on your thoughts and moods, tell the people around to reduce stress in the body."
Through gossiping about others, we can resolve our own conflicts and problems. Looking at the story of others from the outside helps you have a deeper look, and find understanding and sympathy with them.
From there, the gossip will gradually form a method of handling negative emotions and problems of themselves.
Direction
By talking about other people's affairs, we can show people clearly our thoughts and views. People can also learn many things, things that should or should not do through learning and analyzing the problems of those around them.
"In a way, talking about other people's affairs will help you have a clear view to choose and decide your behavior. Based on the reality, we can choose the right direction.
Gossiping and gossiping can be harmful when we distribute false and negative information that makes someone encounter difficult cases. But basically, everyday stories in life are part of communication.
When used effectively, the gossip will help us learn more and connect with others, "Psychotherapist Sylvia said.
However, do not turn to make a bad habit when fabricating, releasing news or saying bad things about others.
