Ms. Pham Thi Thu Hien and Mr. Nguyen Huy Hoang currently have three children.
Ms. Thu Hien is a woman full of personality and style. As an ao dai designer, in addition to her love for ao dai, she also has a rare hobby among women – playing with large displacement motorcycles.
In contrast to his wife, Nguyen Huy Hoang is an engineer, calm, quiet, and disciplined - the perfect complement to his wife's vibrant personality.
Mr. Huy Hoang is the “back of the family”, he is always ready to support his wife; Ms. Thu Hien said: “He takes care of all the expenses in the family and the three children.I only have one job at the shop”.
Mr. Huy Hoang humorously commented about his wife: “My wife is very artistic, artists are usually not good at economics.Therefore, my wife likes to shop a lot, without stopping.Therefore, I have to calculate everything”.
However, thanks to these differences, the two complement each other, creating a happy family.
Their love story began through social networks when Facebook was not yet popular.Although they were not each other's ideal types, Mr. Hoang once told her: "Sometimes in life, if you don't get what you dream of, you have to learn to love what you have." Ms. Thu Hien realized that Mr. Huy Hoang was born to love and care for her.Ms. Thu Hien revealed the story that in the first week after getting married, she wrote a divorce petition and left it on the nightstand because she felt dissatisfied.
However, a saying from Huy Hoang made her change her mind: “Between you and me, it’s like two gears and we have to grind our egos to make them fit together, to make them a machine.That saying from him helped me realize a few things.From then on, I pulled my ego back.” It was this saying from her husband that helped her realize the value of understanding and compromise in marriage.Despite their different personalities, they always respect and accept each other.
Huy Hoang is satisfied, respects and accepts his wife’s differences.
In Hien's eyes, her husband is a perfect person: "My husband is like my dream.Almost a wonderful and complete person.A person that in this life, this lifetime, I have enough." Through the story, psychologist Dr. Ly Thi Mai commented that the story of Nguyen Huy Hoang and Pham Thi Thu Hien demonstrates harmony in marriage.
She sent the message: "People love each other because of what they have in common, but to live together for life, they must accept differences and find ways to reconcile."
