Ms. B told her family story to Dr. To Nhi A (lecturer at Ho Chi Minh City Central Pedagogical College). The story begins after her younger brother gets married for a year and becomes unstable and has accumulated debt.
Because he loved his youngest child, he tried to hide it from the whole family and secretly paid the debt, but then this younger brother had to sell the house and live with his biological parents. borrowing money from his brother for business purposes, the younger brother once again poured it all into gambling.
Some time later, when the sister-in-law demanded money, the younger brother cursed and forced his parents to sell the house to divide the property so that they could pay off the debts. When the family of the brother and Ms. B did not agree, the younger brother beat him.
A month later, when he was able to transfer his parents' name and sell the house, his younger brother immediately bought a new house and then kicked his parents away, not allowing them to live together.
Knowing the story, the brother and Ms. B went to her sister's house and asked to buy a small house for her parents to live in. The younger brother and his wife did not agree, the younger brother's wife told Ms. B: "You are married, what position do you have to speak up here?". This led to a fight between the two sides. The younger brother took a knife and stabbed his brother in the stomach. Ms. B's brother decided not to criticize her and let his younger brother go to prison.
After hearing the story, Dr. To Nhi A asked: "What do you want from your family story?".
Ms. B replied: "When I look around my friends and family, everyone is in harmony, relying on each other to do business, and saving, I also wish my family could do the same. But my family is not happy with what our younger brother has done.
Dr. To Nhi A could not believe that in a year, Ms. B's family had many such happenings. The female doctor continued: "Have your family ever talked to your younger brother about why he was gambling?".
Ms. B replied: "Every person in my family is worried about their own life and is not well off, so they were born early to go to work, only on important occasions can we gather together. My younger brother is inherently gentle, rarely sharing the problems and difficulties he encounters. The family also does not know what problems there are in their younger brother's life, so they have to do things that make the family unhappy."
Dr. To Nhi A analyzed: When you look through the families of friends and many others, you crave love and support from others.
But did you know that the journey to reach that part of love and covering around is different from the journey of a friend's family? That means not everyone is born out of luck to love each other, but people have to build it from the time they are in the family...
After listening to Dr. To Nhi A's analysis, Ms. B confided that she wanted to share this story to relieve her feelings, no longer felt tormented and also wanted to hear another perspective.
