Lack of responsibility and clear direction
This man often avoids talking about the future, does not mention long-term things, is not clear about life goals, career or basic things such as financial stability, self-development.
Always put yourself above
He often only cares about his own emotions and needs, rarely asks questions or cares about what you want. When there is a conflict, he often blames it instead of listening.
Fear of commitment, avoid being tied
He avoids questions like What are we for?, doesnt want to call you a lover, and doesnt mention the future. Everything between the two was slow and vague. At that time, you may be in love with someone who is not ready to stick together.
Inconsistent and inconsistent communication
Sometimes he enthusiastically texted, sometimes he "evaporated" without an explanation. He only contacts when he is at his best, dates when he is free, and never proactively plans for both of them.
Do not share feelings, avoid talking deeply
You can chat with him, but only surround yourself with superficial things. When you mention emotions, difficulties, relationships... he often avoids or laughs negative.
No support when needed, lack of companionship
When you are tired or in trouble, he can stay silent, not ask questions, or say Im so busy. Meanwhile, when he needs you, you always try to be there. A good relationship is when both know how to care at the right time, not one person always " gives", one person only "receives".