Conflicts during holidays are not uncommon in young couples when differences in expectations, habits and emotions easily lead to conflicts.
Master of Psychology Bui Thi Hai Yen - founder and operator of the NHC Vietnam Human Psychology and Development System - has given advice to help young couples resolve conflicts that easily arise during holidays and maintain harmony in their relationships.
Respect personal opinions
During the couple's holidays and travel together, differences in habits, resting styles or reactions are inevitable.
According to experts, instead of trying to change the other person, respecting differences will help both sides see the problem more lightly, avoid imposing and reduce unnecessary stress.
Accept
Accepting shortcomings is the core factor. By reducing expectations of a perfect vacation and accepting each other's true selves, the relationship will become more flexible, less stressful, and more sustainable.
This is also a way to help couples better adjust their emotions in arising situations.
Holidays should be seen as a journey of experience
Instead of setting a goal to have a perfect trip, young families should consider the holiday as an opportunity to observe, understand and learn to accompany.
When each person can adjust their expectations and emotions, vacation is not only a time for rest but also becomes an opportunity to connect more substantive feelings.
