Love is not bound to become a new trend
In a world full of temptation and freedom, unrestrained love has become an increasingly popular trend, especially among young people.
Without commitment to money, emotions or spirit, this type of love brings comfort, without worrying about responsibility or expectations. But behind that freedom, are there the silent hurt that few people dare to face?
Although both agreed without commitment or expectation, Mr. Nguyen Ba Hung (Dong Da, Hanoi) always believed that his girlfriend truly loved him.
They lived together without making their relationship public, creating a private space for themselves, but he never thought that things would not be as he thought.
One day, when he accidentally checked his girlfriend's phone, he was shocked to discover countless photos of her being intimate with other men.
I used to think I was special. However, when I looked at those photos, I realized that I was just a temporary solution... I felt like an item thrown away, just a tool for her to satisfy her temporary needs, Mr. Hung shared.
facility to lead to misunderstandings and hurt
Mr. Hung's story is not the only one. Linh Anh (Hoang Mai, Hanoi) also chose to love without expectations, without constraints, to avoid hurt. But then she realized that even though she did not set any expectations, her heart was still in pain.
At first, I didnt expect him to get away with it. But the closer we get together, the more I want to have a clear identity. When he did not respond, I realized that I was just a temporary choice, not much better, Linh Anh confided.
Dr. Pham Thi Thuy - lecturer at the Political Academy of Region II - said that "un bound love" is a concept that young people are calling out, but if it is not bound in nature, it cannot be called love. It's just dating, getting to know each other or a type of affection similar to love.
This is a trend that brings more consequences than temporary emotional release. If you do not clearly define the needs and desires from both sides, you can easily suffer or be hurt when expectations are not met, Dr. Pham Thi Thuy commented and said that enhancing communication is the key to building a strong relationship and developing long-term love.
Sometimes, you can love, you can be moved, but it is important not to let emotions temporarily overwhelm your reason. Don't rush to confuse or confirm the relationship without clarification from both sides," said Dr. Pham Thi Thuy.
