The lady in pink still likes to make 2 spoons of salty ice cream and then stir the cup well so that the ice cream mixes well with the coffee, and tells the lady in blue: Yesterday, I unfriended that girl Y. She's so different now.
Then she told her friend in detail about how she helped Y when she was in trouble, how she helped her find a job, how she took her to the hospital when she was sick, how she lent her money when she sent her to study abroad... In the past, the two of them were very close, stuck together like glue, she would call her and she would come over, they were closer than relatives. But just a few months ago, after Y forgot to invite her to her birthday, everything faded away like fate.
One day, they met by chance at the supermarket. For some reason, she forgot her Visa card and didn't have any cash on her. She was confused at the cashier when she met Y. As if guessing that she was in trouble, Y took out his card and gave it to the female employee to charge for both carts. But at that moment, her husband came in to buy a bottle of fruit wine to cool his stomach, so Y didn't have a chance to help her.
Then the following month, at the opening party of company X, she had just arrived, Y from afar was about to greet her but a friend pulled her away... After that, Y didn't ask anything for a long time, and she didn't respond to any of the "posts" she posted on Facebook. So, she unfriended them so they wouldn't see each other again.
The lady in the blue dress seemed absent-minded, sipping her coffee and complaining that it was weaker than usual. Then she said: Maybe each generation has a different way of thinking. And middle-aged people like us tend to get stuck in the past without realizing that only the present has meaning.
In the past, you were too enthusiastic with Y, but in return, Y treated you very well and was very considerate. However, after a while, you could no longer help Y like before because Y's life had gotten much better. Then he became busy all day when he moved to another company, so he didn't have the time to be with you like before.
As for the birthday, Y later told me that at that time, he had just finished his aunt's funeral less than a week ago, so he didn't really want to celebrate his birthday, just that his friends remembered to bring flowers and gifts. Maybe you unfriended him a little too quickly. But anyway, if you keep holding grudges over those little things, it's better to stop being friends.
