Your disciple for many years now betrays his teacher, running after others contrary to the principle of "one foot can step on two canoes".
Your best friend, just because of dissent over something happening half a world away, decides to block you on all fronts. Is it because a stuffy life makes people more quick-tempered and more prone to outbursts of anger without cause? He advised you like the French proverb: "C'est la vie" ( That's life !) and then called the teapot and told you: Forget it. Drink tea!
But you can't ignore it, the words keep pouring out like water breaking the bank with words that express more and more anger. Well, when people are angry, just let them vent their anger to share their feelings.
Just talking for a while and then you stopped, he then said: Everyone thinks my problem is big, my unhappiness is the biggest and my ego is number 1. Then over time, look back. It's all just a "storm in a teacup". Many other people are more unfortunate but they still live happily. Actually, calling them unhappy is according to the eyes of outsiders, but they don't see it but always enjoy life every day.
Like artist Chau, if he accepts the same fate as other children unfortunately affected by dioxin, he will live in a children's village all his life and receive full subsidies. But Chau taught herself to draw, gritted her teeth, held her brush and was patient every day to create emotional paintings . Chau went out to rent a house to live, draw and teach young people, and became a strong source of inspiration for many young people. If you just hang around, nibbling on your unhappiness, life will be bland and boring.
You sit still and say that you can't get the angry thoughts about that situation out of your head. Even though we know it is toxic and corrosive, eroding our physical and mental health; But the more I try to ignore it, the tighter it becomes. He advises you not to try to fight it, but to let it pass and recognize it so you don't get caught up in it like the Zen masters did. Then he laughed: Oh well, talking about theory is boring, let's go drink. Beer and alcohol sometimes wash away wounds very quickly!