It is worth mentioning that this is not the first time she has fallen into such a situation. When he had just graduated, a long-time best friend left, with a firm conclusion like a nail in the net: "When I was with you, I saw the project passing but the merits did not pass me". She once thought it was just a misunderstanding, like wearing the wrong pants to someone else at the gym. But no, the next misunderstandings kept happening as they had to.
Every time there is a drama, she wondered why, until one day, she heard someone online say: "The lessons are not yet proper, I will have to retake them. If they fail, they must take the re-examination until they pass. And so, her life began to be seen from the perspective of a professional re-examination student.
Last night, there was a partner of a new project who brought all the characteristics that she had previously disliked: being strict, often forced to, and tending to speak as if participating in a national speech contest. She just got used to it like a Math subject that she could not finish. But this time, she is determined to study again to avoid failing!
She started listening, not counterattacking.When the head wanted to get rid of it, she stopped drinking water and avoided speech when she had not "bent her tongue seven times" ...
Finally, the project was successful, the partner was no longer as unpleasant as before, even wrote Facebook to praise her to listen!Then she told an old friend (the only person who kept in touch after the peeling off): I thought again.Each time there is a drama, once a "use of emotional intelligence at work".The girl nodded: "Me too.After breaking up, it is like the lesson of loving people, it is given a new topic.The problem is harder, the image is more handsome, but the outcome is still original."
So, life doesn't wait for anyone to prepare before checking. No exam time is announced in advance, no buoys, only one thing is certain: lessons that are not yet included will be sent back - sometimes in the form of an increase in level.
And from that day on, she stopped asking: "Why do you meet the hateful person?" and thought: "ok, I don't know this song yet, just sit and study. Next time, don't let me study again."