Dating is the stage for couples to learn and share everything about each other. However, some small actions of the guys can make the other person feel sad and this will more or less affect the quality of the relationship.
No regard for feelings
One of the most common insensitive actions that guys often do is not paying attention to or caring about the feelings of the person they love. During the dating stage, listening and understanding the other person is very important to forming a long-term relationship.
However, sometimes guys focus too much on other issues that are considered bigger and forget the needs and feelings of their lover.
This can make the other person feel upset, lack of understanding and result in disagreements, easily leading to arguments. Therefore, guys should take the time to listen, resolve problems and share everything so that both can understand each other better.
Not paying attention to the details of life
Small details in daily life can be one of the important factors that help maintain the long-term feelings of both. However, some guys do not care too much about things that seem unimportant, such as anniversary dates, not remembering their lover's hobbies...
Ignoring small details can cause a lot of pain to the other person. To make the relationship stronger, showing concern for small things will be appreciated by the other person in respect and desire to build a long-term relationship.
Compare your lover with others
Comparing your lover with others is one of the most tactless actions and the reason why relationships quickly fall apart. Whether comparing with relatives, friends or anyone else, it is an insensitive way that makes your lover feel disrespected.
To maintain a strong relationship, instead of comparing, guys should look at the advantages to encourage their lover to develop, and always confidently express themselves.
Disrespect in communication
One of the important factors in maintaining a lasting relationship is communication. Lack of respect from words, actions or attitudes can hurt the other person's feelings. This is also the main reason why the relationship between the two of you breaks down and is difficult to mend.
Therefore, pay attention to communication to help resolve conflicts and build trust in the relationship between the two. In particular, respecting the other person, knowing how to listen and share sincerely will help the feelings of couples develop sustainably.
Not spending time together
One of the actions that is considered tactless in men is not spending much time with the person they love. Although busy with work, meeting friends or enjoying their own passion, spending a certain amount of time with the lover is necessary in cultivating the feelings of both.
When a boyfriend does not spend enough time with his lover, the lack of dates will make him feel lonely, depressed and want to give up.
Therefore, to keep your relationship strong and happy, spend more time together talking or working towards goals that both of you need to try to build a foundation for the future.
