Sharing with People's Artist Hong Van at "Perfect Measure", Ms. Thao said: "He and I are from the same hometown, our family is only four alleys apart and we have known each other since childhood. After that, at the age of 12, I went to Nha Trang to study, so I no longer contacted him. When I finished high school, I went to Ho Chi Minh City to study at university and met him again.
At first, she had no feelings for him because he was quiet and quiet. When the relationship between the two began, Mr. Cuong's family had a cold attitude, even publicly expressing their hatred for her family. Fortunately, her family did not stop their love. Mr. Cuong's family forced him to return to his hometown in order to prevent this relationship. Mr. Cuong frankly asked his family to give him the right to decide his future. He will take responsibility for his own happiness.
Mr. Dau Van Cuong said that when he was a student, his father was determined to prevent love. Six months after he graduated, his father passed away. Later, the opposition shifted to the mother and siblings in the family. Most of them opposed it, only a few did not object but did not speak out in support. Up to 90% of the members of the family did not agree to let him continue his relationship with Ms. Thao.
A love that is almost fruitless, but they still maintain it for 9 years and getting married is not easy. First of all, it is because I love my family. My husband's family treated my family very badly, and for 9 years they have not seen their faces and spoken. My father once said that the decision on the future was up to us, so we would wait until the husband's family agreed. Many times I felt depressed and wanted to give up, Thao confided.
Mr. Cuong said: "During that period, my wife was under a lot of pressure so she wanted to break up with me. My wife also had many options, because at that time there were many people chasing her.
It was Mr. Cuong's maturity and perseverance that helped their love last and together they can go to this day. Although she tried to give up many times, what kept her in faith was him - a person with opinions, who was affectionate with his parents but was strong enough to choose and keep her own happiness. For her, he is a solid support, a person she can trust in.
The climax of the protest was when their wedding took place, Mr. Cuong shared: On the wedding day, my mother went with Thao and her parents, even though they were on the same flight, they did not see each other. When entering the ceremony because of the mandatory situation, my mother had to hesitate to step onto the stage to celebrate.
A month after the wedding, something unexpected happened to Ms. Thao - Mr. Cuong's mother called her, saying an apology for the first time after nine years of silence and being cold. His mother called me and said: I apologize to you for not treating you and your family well for the past 9 years. Anyway, you are already my mother's daughter-in-law. I hope you will forgive me for the shortcomings in the past, so that I can be harmonious and support my family together, Thao revealed.
Mr. Cuong and his wife said that the reason for their mother's change of mind is still unclear. But it was that call that changed their lives. Mr. Cuong breathed a sigh of relief after so many difficult years. As for Ms. Thao, she burst into tears - the tear of the woman who felt the sincere acceptance from her husband's family for the first time.
