In the first story, Ms. M called the program to share about conflicts in the family. The reason comes from the fact that the older brother wanted to share the fortune from his parents.
Ms. M said: "My family has 4 siblings, all of whom are married and have their own lives. One day, the eldest brother suddenly came to demand to divide the family fortune, the financial family is the land where my parents were cultivating to make a living. The remaining siblings did not agree, because that was the family lineage of their parents. Moreover, parents are still alive, dividing the fortune is unreasonable. Therefore, it has caused tension in the family until now".
With Ms. M's story, Dr. To Nhi A (lecturer at Ho Chi Minh City Central Pedagogical College) commented that her eldest brother's actions and thinking were unreasonable. The female doctor analyzed that dividing assets depends on the parents' decision, because this is their property, not that of Ms. M's four siblings.
Artist Ngan Quynh believes that her eldest brother's agricultural actions were affected by his family life. I have gone to film in many places, witnessed many families of parents who love their children very much, even to the point of calling them blind.
It can also be affected by the way of raising children, so they gradually form their personality. When they grow up and need money to do business, they come home to ask. For Aids, family affection is always the top priority, if children fail, parents should adopt them, but it is not advisable for children to onto their parents' assets, the female artist expressed.
In the second story, Ms. K sent a letter about the program, expressing her concern about the way her half-brother raised her "crazy" child.
Ms. K said: "My two siblings have a 10-year-old nephew this year. In conversations, they often talk about trying to work hard to give all their assets to their children in the future. Although I have repeatedly reminded them not to say that, it will form dependence, without effort. However, what do you think children know?
Artist Ngan Quynh did not agree with Ms. K's parenting views. Also from the above story, the female artist shared about how to teach children to live independently. She revealed: "At the age of 15, I saw my son being playful and dependent. At that time, I bought my child an item but he didn't like to use it and sold it on his own. When I asked why she didn't ask her parents' opinion, she said this was her responsibility, she had the right to decide for herself. I felt that my child was dependent, so I decided to send him to study abroad early even though I had a broken heart.
Ngan Quynh said that even though he has studied abroad for many years, his son is still sometimes angry with his parents for letting him set up a place of "foreign land and homeland".
But one day, I will understand that parents giving birth to me is to let me taste all the bitter fruits in life and show me the value of money and labor, the female artist choked up.
Reviewing the theme "Child's Talent", artist Ngan Quynh expressed: "From the recent story, I have no intention of teaching life or showing any sublimation, but with my own experience, after witnessing many families, I have a small suggestion that we should teach our children about independence from a young age, not relying on their parents' assets. That is a good condition for children to form a better personality when entering society later.
