Actress Lan Phuong shared many confidences about marriage after announcing that she had divorced and was preparing for divorce proceedings with her husband.
She called the divorce process "rescue", "slight" and implied that she had been hopeless and struggled in her marriage for the past 7 years.
Many conflicting information caused Lan Phuong's confidences to attract thousands of comments.
The videos of her talking about loneliness in marriage and implying that she will not wish to beg when divorced have been spread by the online community on many platforms.
Before that, the actress had shared many times about her happy and fulfilling marriage. In a conversation with Lao Dong reporter, Lan Phuong said: "He observes me, knows me a lot to do things that make me happy. He avoided doing things that made me sad. He is a good husband, a good father. He always brings the best to his wife and children".
However, after giving birth to her second child, Lan Phuong had many psychological and health problems. She once mentioned having to live away from her husband when she was pregnant and gave birth to a second child, suffered from depression but could not share it with relatives.
After deciding to separate, Lan Phuong became more open about her marital conflicts. However, the small pieces of information with negative nuances that the actors accidentally posted made her partner - David Ducky - become a person attacked and criticized by the online community.
In her private life, old footage, and shares about their marriage were dug up and cut down to find the real cause behind Lan Phuong's 7 years of "struggling".
Some people think that Lan Phuong divorced because they were not allowed to hold a wedding, others think that she was neglected and took care of her two young children alone. Some people thought her husband was having an affair. The information is unfounded but spreads rapidly.
Many viewers were confused by sensitive information, criticizing the couple who had praised each other very much but when they separated, they were noisy and scandalous.
Actress Lan Phuong also revealed that the message she was attacked by the online community and said that "they have to know how to restrain their image".
Some opinions assessed Lan Phuong as somewhat emotional and inadequate when constantly talking about a broken marriage. Meanwhile, after the divorce, they have many things to do with each other. If they have children, the relationship will be even closer.
"Cvilized divorce is to respect the other person after a dialogue in court, not to post it on social media for others to judge and criticize. If the couple is hostile to each other, it will be very difficult to create a friendly environment to raise and care for their children," said audience L.A. expressed his opinion.
Lan Phuong and David Duffy first met in 2017. At the end of 2017, she accepted a proposal from David. After half a year, they registered their marriage before welcoming their first daughter.
Although they lived together and had 2 children, the couple did not hold a wedding. The actress said that although Tay's husband wanted to hold a wedding, she did not care about this because the wedding was just a formality.
In 2023, the two bought an apartment in Hanoi to stabilize their lives. Due to the nature of his work, David Duffy works domestically and internationally regularly.
Last year, after giving birth to her second daughter, waiting for her child to be more strong, Lan Phuong took her children to Da Nang to live with her husband.
In recent months, Lan Phuong has repeatedly shared photos of herself filming in Hanoi. She traveled with her daughter a few times but her husband did not appear. The actress also posted articles about loneliness, disappointment, and healing of wounds.