"This is the 13th neighbor who has destroyed my family. Everyone please share so that everyone knows her true face! angry status along with a nearly 3-minute clip of a wife named H.T. posted on social networks, attracting tens of thousands of shares in a short time.
In the video, Ms. H.T. holding a phone, filming and questioning the husband and the strange woman in the coffee shop. The husband just bowed his head and remained silent. The woman was confused and avoided the lens. And just a few hours later, the identities of all three were tracked by the online community "at all levels".
Not stopping there, Ms. H.T. continued to post wedding photos, photos of young children, messages between husband and lover, then livestreamed about their tearful 8-year marriage. I thought she would be sympathized, but besides words of encouragement, there were countless insulting and discontinuous words, even from strangers. The family story - which should be a private matter - was suddenly torn apart like a diary being read in the middle of the market.
Not only did the betrayed speak up, but the third person sometimes took the initiative to "show off achievements". On TikTok, there are many clips with the hashtag #Tuesday, with words challenging the first wife or showing off gifts from married men. Some people even livestreamed the process of "taking advantage of" as if it were a proud achievement.
It is easy to see that social networks are gradually becoming a place to express anger and judge ethics - a place where right and wrong are sometimes mixed between emotions and noise. People involved may feel relieved in an instant, but the consequences of this are unpredictable.
After a few days of "famousness", they have to live with gossip, with suspicious eyes from acquaintances and strangers. Children if any also suffer unnecessary damage.
No one should cheer for adultery, but one should not turn one's grief into a weapon to hurt others. In such personal matters, sometimes being silent, making wise choices, keeping a little calm and self-respect is the best way to protect yourself.
When love affairs are broken, everyone has the right to be sad and angry, but be careful with how you express emotions. Because after all, what we need most is not the enthusiasm from the online community, but peace to start our lives over.
