Accompanying the two characters in the program are MC Dai Nghia and psychologist Dr. Bui Hong Quan, bringing many insightful perspectives on love, marriage and acceptance from their own children.
Opening the program, MC Dai Nghia said that this is the story of two people who have gone through upheavals, but still maintain faith in love.
Ms. Bui Thi Diem shared that after her marriage broke down, she lived alone, selling soft drinks and finding joy through social networks. From here, she met Mr. Dinh Van Choi. "At that time, I was alone, my children went to work far away. I used social networks to relieve boredom and then accidentally met him. Talking together, loving each other, and then deciding to meet," she emotionally recounted.
After a period of getting to know each other, the two proceeded to date. However, the journey to come together was not easy when the age difference made the children and grandchildren of both sides worried. "My son has not accepted me because he sees that I am younger, so he is afraid that I am not sincere," Ms. Diem shared. Although sad, she chose to be patient, believing that time will prove her feelings.
On Mr. Choi's side, he understands his children's worries but is still steadfast in his choice. "My children are afraid that I will be hurt. But I believe the children will accept it when they see us living honestly with each other," he said. After moving in together, the two maintained a harmonious life, knowing how to yield. "If there is anything unpleasant, talk gently," Mr. Choi said.
A special point in the story is the very ordinary jealousy of the husband. Ms. Diem still maintains her passion for "don ca tai tu", regularly participating in cultural activities. "I often sing, at first he was jealous, so I let him go with me for fun," she shared with a smile. Before the MC's question, Mr. Choi also admitted: "I was jealous because of love, but now it's better, seeing her happy makes me happy.
Not only nurturing personal feelings, Ms. Diem also strives to harmonize the two families. She regularly sends gifts, keeps in touch with her children and creates bonds. On Mr. Choi's side, he also proactively advises his children: "Dad, live happily". Up to now, the children have gradually become more open, no longer strongly opposed as before.
Commenting on the story, Dr. Bui Hong Quan said that the important factor is not age but sincerity and perseverance. According to him, age-gap relationships need to be viewed based on how two people treat each other, instead of social prejudices.
Closing the program, MC Dai Nghia shared: "Love does not always come at the right time in youth, but sometimes appears when people need the most peace". The story of Mrs. Diem and Mr. Choi shows that, despite experiencing breakdowns and facing barriers from family, love can still blossom if there is tolerance and understanding.
