Sharing with People's Artist Hong Van, Ms. Thao Nguyen said: “My husband had only three romantic times. First, he took the initiative to buy books from the author" grass "and it was also my nickname. Second, after the wedding, the next day he took me to return the wedding dress and asked:" Do you remember my mother? When I remember, tell me "
Mr. Dang Dung, Ms. Thao Nguyen's husband, shared with psychologist To Nhi A (lecturer at Ho Chi Minh City Central Pedagogical College) that the romantic things he did to his wife were giving gifts, sending wishes on holidays, and inviting his wife to go out or work away together. "From the time we met until now, every time we have fun or date, my wife is always the one to decide. I myself have not done that job since then, so I cannot be proactive," he shared.
Ms. Thao Nguyen shared with People's Artist Hong Van: "At that time, I was working far away, coming back once a week. Every time I go to a restaurant, I choose which restaurant, but he only follows. When they met, I was the one to talk first, he didn't. He is always passive in every situation."
To get married and organize a wedding, Ms. Thao Nguyen was also the one who took the initiative to open the door: "I am the one who demands to marry you. If we don't get married, I won't hang out, won't hang out together anymore. After getting married, he was still gentle, but no longer cared about and questioned me like before.
Before, when we were in love, I was the proactive person, but he occasionally cared and asked me. After getting married, that problem is gone. Every weekend, I invite him to Vung Tau to play, go home in the morning and afternoon, but he chooses to play with his children.
Indeed, small things will gradually accumulate into big things, like a drop in water. If the glass had already overflowed, I didn't know when it would have overflowed. Once, I got angry and demanded a divorce. He also said he would give him time to edit, and I gave him a final chance. But I have not seen any effort or change in him.
Mr. Dang Dung explained to psychologist To Nhi A: "I personally really want to change to improve. I want to text and wish you sweet words, but I don't know why I can't do it. My wife has been angry and frustrated for about 3-4 days. I think my wife will just get angry. I also don't know how to change myself".
Hearing the couple express their feelings, psychologist To Nhi A commented: "I am the first son in the family, I am affected by my own family. He did not see romance in his living environment, so it was very difficult for Mr. Dung to have a romantic relationship with Ms. Thao Nguyen. Secondly, he was confused, wanted to change but did not know how to change to improve himself."