Ms. B and her husband had known each other for 9 years before getting married. The marriage was initially quite happy when both of them made their dream of traveling across Vietnam come true.
However, the tragedy began when she quit her old company. After 7 years of living together, she discovered that her husband had an affair.
A month after learning about the incident, Ms. B was mentally devastated. Because she lives with her biological parents, she always keeps her sadness a secret. About two months later, Ms. B decided to directly resolve the issue.
Ms. B made an appointment to meet them two to talk. However, her husband's lover challenged her: "I challenge you to do whatever you can, let me try it."
After that, Ms. B went home to find out information and surrounding relationships and learned that this person was the manager of a drinking place next to her husband's company. The two have been together for quite a while and the husband often uses his time at the company to have an affair.
More than a year later, when the two continued their relationship, Ms. B decided to carry out her own plan, collecting more evidence in her favor, while her husband left home...
celebrating her wedding anniversary, her husband remained silent and did not return home. The next day, Ms. B sent an email with evidence to everyone in her husband's company, accusing her husband of always using his working time here to get back to his lover, resulting in his husband being fired.
As for the lover, Ms. B also went to the drinking place to report the affair, which caused him to be fired.
She shared that after doing those things, she felt extremely relieved, could move forward easily and not turn back to look back at the situation.
After hearing the story, director Le Hoang asked: "Through the recent story, do you think your behavior is correct?". Ms. B replied: "I think there is nothing right and nothing wrong, because everything I do is very carefully thoughtful."
Director Le Hoang analyzed: "We should not use our lives to take revenge. If we discover that our husbands are cheating, we have two ways: One is to forgive, two is to divorce.
Here, I learned that my husband had an affair and I spent two years collecting evidence, finding ways to make this man no longer have money after leaving me and the feelings were not intact. I don't need to waste time doing those things, when I meet someone who is not worthy of me, I should leave."
Ms. B explained: "Actually, my ultimate goal is not to punish but to make the Adultors always suffer about that problem".
Director Le Hoang advised: "You are the miserable person here. When I learned that my husband was cheating, and for a year and a week I always tried every way, such as accessing Facebook, Zalo or collecting documents, it was completely wrong. There is no formula to handle Adultery, some cry, some are arrogant, some leave peacefully, some leave painfully".
From this story, director Le Hoang advised the audience to learn from the program's experience for themselves: "No matter what happens, we should use the remaining time to get to what we want, not go back to do anything. Put the past behind and look forward to the future.
