Amidst many controversies on social networks surrounding a video recording the harsh words of a mother-in-law to her daughter-in-law after giving birth, Yen Xuan - goalkeeper Dang Van Lam's wife posted a status sharing personal views.
Not every mother-in-law is as difficult as you in the video. Unmarried girls, don't be afraid, but be alert.
No need to argue right or wrong with others. A person who knows what is right did not choose to do wrong. Patience is sometimes not peaceful.
Parents gave birth to me, raised me very hard, they only want us to be happy. Protect and cherish yourself.
No one can threaten or deprive you of your right to choose to live. Stay awake," she wrote.
In the article, Dang Van Lam's wife mentioned how to handle conflicts in the family. According to her, arguing right and wrong is not always a suitable choice, and at the same time expressed the view that patience does not mean that the problem is resolved.
Yen Xuan also believes that women need to proactively protect themselves and maintain their decision-making power over their lifestyle, instead of accepting pressure from outside.
The article quickly attracted public attention. Some opinions suggest that this is a realistic perspective and respects her personal opinions.
Previously, Yen Xuan rarely appeared in noisy stories on social networks, was discreet in her personal life and rarely commented on controversial issues.
The relationship between her and her husband's family is also known to the public with many positive information. Dang Van Lam's mother has repeatedly shown closeness to her daughter-in-law.
Goalkeeper Dang Van Lam's family currently lives in Vung Tau. Yen Xuan and her husband often visit their parents when they have free time, eat together, go out or meet relatives. These images show the bond between family members.
