Continuously occurring cases of school violence, showing worrying signs of deviation in awareness, ethics and behavior of a part of students today.
It is necessary to look directly at the nature of these acts of violence.
A child cannot become corrupt overnight, but it is a long process of not being cared for, taught, and corrected by parents.
Indifference to the pain of others, herd mentality when participating in "gang beating", even filming clips and spreading them online, all show that children are not equipped with basic moral values.
Morality must be sown from the family itself, the first and most important place in each person's journey of maturity.
It is undeniable the role of schools in moral education, but it is also necessary to look straight at the truth, teachers cannot replace parents.
A teacher can only teach students within the classroom and regulations, while parents are the ones who live with their children every day, witnessing every small change in their children's personality and behavior.
Parents are indifferent, completely entrusting teaching to the school, or only care about grades and neglect behavior, then the educational gap will be filled with negative impacts from the outside environment.
Successive cases of school violence, from Dong Nai to Thanh Hoa, are not isolated phenomena, it is a warning bell about a reality that many families are neglecting their children's education.
There are parents who do not know who their children are socializing with, some people know but ignore it, and some are helpless because they have missed the opportunity to correct them early.
What is worrying is not only the current violence, but the long-term consequences.
Without education and adjustment, spoiled students can continue to develop deviantly in character, disregard social norms, and eventually lose their own future.
Society can condemn, schools can discipline, the law can handle, but all are "final" measures.
Family education is the first and most important "defense line".
Don't rush to blame the school or the social environment. Because the simple but harsh truth is that if parents don't teach their children, then no one can teach for them.
And also need to remember one thing, teachers only endure a bad student for a few years, while parents may have to face the consequences of that leniency... for the rest of their lives.
