Real Madrid sacking Xabi Alonso is similar, with two opposing perspectives from Khabib Nurmagomedov - UFC legend, and Thierry Henry - football legend.Khabib said Real Madrid players are "treated children".Henry argued that Alonso needs to reduce his ego, because he doesn't need to teach football to players who have won the Champions League. It can be shortened to two perspectives.For Khabib, discipline is the foundation of all success, for Henry, managing people is the key to survival.In fact, no one is wrong.
It's just that they are in two different positions.
Khabib and Henry do not argue directly. The example is only given to talk about what is still common in today's society, when everything can become an issue to rush into debate, criticism, criticism, comment, judgment. In an effort at all costs to distinguish right from wrong, it is easy to see, who is like you "understands things", who is different from you "has problems".
Because of a belief, even blindly, people do not care about the difference in standing position. And therefore, not only life and society, but also within many individuals, there are always "waves", instability, and lack of peace.
Being strong enough within is not the time you win against anyone when arguing, but the time you start to understand why the other side thinks so. You also no longer need to fix or change anyone. Then, you no longer see anyone wrong. Everyone is right, within their experience. They don't live your life, and you don't live their life either.
Interestingly, when you understand things better, you speak less. Not because you are at a disadvantage or inferior, but because you no longer feel the need to prove yourself right. There are debates where winning or losing both makes you lose energy. Then, withdrawing is wise. "Protecting ego" and "protecting peace" are huge differences.
Finally, when your inner strength is strong enough, you also don't need anyone to recognize that you are right. Because you understand that the world is wider than your perspective. Peace does not come from being superior in words, but from understanding that each person is only doing their best, from the position they are standing in.
