You saw him listening to the neighbors' gossip and said: It's a common thing. He always tortures his wife at night, sometimes even in the middle of the night, all over trivial matters. I know that his wife suffered a lot when she loved him. She was questioned about his slow response to messages, and she was suspicious when she showed up late to the meeting place. Her friends advised her to leave him, because there are many men in the world. But she insisted that he was stubborn but kind. Then you told me that a female colleague at the same company also complained many times about her retired old husband. Every night, he went out drinking, and when he came home in the middle of the night, he would wake his wife up and nag her about all sorts of things. Maybe it was because he felt he made less money than his wife, or more deeply, he used to work as a security guard for the apartment complex where her parents lived. One time, the wife was so angry that she called her brother to deal with it, but her husband begged her and then went back to the same old thing. She was angry and left for a few days, but couldn't stand missing her children anymore and came back. When asked why she didn't leave, she said it was because she had three children, it was not easy to leave, and also her family was very feudal, her mother said if she left her husband, she would have no face to face the neighbors.
You pause for a moment and sigh: It is so sad that things like this still happen in this day and age. Breaking up and coming together is normal, just like every beginning has an end, but many people, for one reason or another, refuse to accept the laws of life. Among all forms of violence, physical pain heals scars and regenerates skin much faster than mental violence. But life is not infinite, so take the time to love and enjoy life like the poem by Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh: "Thank life every morning when I wake up/For giving me a new day to love."
