There are people who always consider themselves stupid with a naive appearance, always looking at life with a blank expression, but in reality are full of tricks and schemes. People who talk loudly, are ready to curse, but have extremely gentlemanly personalities. People who always walk lightly, speak softly, and smile charmingly, but have unpredictable and vicious hearts.
You are an experienced person, love a lot, fail a lot and admit that you don't understand much about women and often quote a famous writer: Women are to be loved, not understood.
He recalled his dream when he was young to marry a woman with a strong and profound personality like Lin Chong’s wife in the movie “The Wanderer Yan Qing,” but after many years he still couldn’t find one. It’s not that there aren’t strong people who lack depth. On the contrary, deep people are weak. So he kept wandering in many love affairs, and after many years he was still free.
You laugh: You are not an Oshonist. Those are people who love the Indian philosopher Osho. He said very well about love in his book “Being in love” (original title: Being in love) “What you need to do is not learn how to love, but eliminate the ways to lose love”. Osho always turns the problem upside down to find the core of the problem, such as whether you are in love with that person or just in love with your own image without knowing that like signs repel each other, different signs attract each other. He also believes that disagreements and arguments in love are normal and also shows that love has the ability to overcome these barriers.
He nodded: I read the philosopher Osho, he spent his whole life helping people find “who I am”. It seems like a simple question but everyone struggles with it, sometimes even after almost their whole life they still go astray. According to Osho, people often confuse the body and the mind. “You are not your mind, you are not your body”, because the body and the mind will disappear, but you are eternal. And when you find this eternal thing, you are returning home.