The guest of the program "The Third Person" is Ms. V, currently living and working in Hanoi. Ms. V and her husband work at the same place but in different branches. She is an accountant and Mr. M is a driver.
Not long after getting married, Ms. V and her husband happily welcomed two daughters in 2013 and 2016. Ms. V's family life was peaceful until 2022, when many colleagues often asked Ms. V to "be wary" of her husband because he was too close to a female colleague.
Not only was she not vigilant, Ms. V did not even think about her husband's affair. Two months later, Ms. V was "stunned" when she saw her husband "having fun" with a female colleague right at work.
After witnessing this scene, Ms. V quickly contacted the "mistress" and asked the two to meet at a coffee shop to confront each other.
As for the husband, although he promised to end his relationship with his mistress, Mr. M still had the same old problem when half a month later, Ms. V continued to "catch him red-handed" being intimate with the "mistress" at a karaoke bar located in the center of Hanoi.
On the day of the divorce court, Ms. V revealed that because both families begged and Mr. M also begged, the two only separated. A year later, seeing Mr. M's efforts to change, Ms. V forgave him and they have been living together until now.
Sharing the reason, Ms. V said that, after more than 10 years of living together, Mr. M was a bit grumpy but loved and cared for his wife and children very much. Especially, because Ms. V also suffered from the pain of her parents "going their separate ways", she did not want her children to suffer the same situation.
Listening to Ms. V's story, director Le Hoang exclaimed: "You have a very high level of forgiveness." He even thought that this week's guest of The Third Person had a somewhat strange point of view because she did not want to lose to the "third party" so she wanted to win her husband back.
Unlike the characters appearing on the show The Third Person, director Le Hoang expressed his gratitude because he thought that Ms. V was not the type of woman who would give in but still chose to forgive and learned many lessons for herself: "I see that you are not the gentle type, you are a formidable woman but you are forgiving, I am a bit surprised".
Closing the program, director Le Hoang commented: “Husband and wife can live together and bond with each other for many reasons, not just sex. Sex is not the highest thing for people to bond with each other, so if adultery only involves sex, then it is not the most terrible thing. I dare not say no, but I think sex is not the most important thing in married life.”
