Finance
According to a survey conducted by psychologists, most men when asked about the obstacles before getting married are related to finance.
Men often take on the role of shoulder in the family and financial issues are one of the important things, ensuring the future life of the couple. Because when determining a sustainable relationship, having a solid economic foundation will be the goal for men to be determined and make efforts to build their career.
Work
Just like finance, if a man cannot be sure about his job and has a stable income, they will not think about going further in a relationship.
A man with self-respect will not want his wife to have to work hard and shoulder many responsibilities in the family. Therefore, men will always try and strive until they feel they can control everything, help ensure their lives, then they will consider the long-term thing.
Family
This is an issue that is probably a problem for couples if one of their families does not support this relationship. That will make men also have to worry about thinking because above all, they always want their family to support and foster both sides to build a long-lasting happy life.
And especially, if men believe in their choices, they need more time to convince and prove that their feelings are serious, as well as aim for a better future. That is also the reason why men are not in a hurry to consider a suitable time based on factors from spirit, material and circumstances to make decisions related to the whole life.