Psychologist Kamna Chhibber - Head of the Department of Mental Health and Behavioral Sciences, Fortis Memorial Research Institute (India) pointed out 4 tips that you should absolutely not follow in any relationship.
1. Just hold on to your position
It sounds strong and decisive, but this advice can easily put you in a position to face your lover or partner. In love, no one is always right or wrong. stubbornly holding on to their views only makes it difficult for both sides to find a common voice. Instead of pushing for opinions, listen to what the other person says and find a solution together. Communication is always the key.
2. You must be the one to take the initiative
Love is not a contest to see who is "up to" who. Equality and mutual respect are the solid foundation for a long-term relationship. Taking turns proactively, whether in the way of expressing feelings, deciding on common work or resolving conflicts, is completely normal. A healthy relationship is when both of you work together to foster, not to seek power.
3. Never trade
The relationship cannot last if everyone just wants to do their own thing. Compromise does not mean giving up yourself, but is willing to understand and adjust for others. moved, shared and listened are important factors that help love overcome storms.
4. When stressed, it is best to stay silent
Many people think that when conflicts arise, being silent is the best way to reduce stress. But if they remain silent for too long, the two can easily misunderstand each other, emotions are suppressed and the gap increases. Instead of avoiding, choose the right time to sit down and talk frankly. Sharing at the right time will help both of you understand each other better and maintain the relationship for a long time.
