The character Minh in the movie " state your words" choosing to commit suicide to free the deadlocks in life, escape the "needle" of the mother reflects partly the negative side of family life in modern society.
As the rate of divorce and adultery increases, children have to face changes in their daily living environment, witness arguments between parents, and even become a "dashboard" subject to anger, fatigue and hatred from their own loved ones.
Although the film received mixed responses, it is clear that in reality, Minh is a typical character of the generation of children affected psychologically by their parents' broken marriages. This consequence caused the boy to fall into a state of playing around, lonely and consumed by the mother's daily crush.
The tragedy that the 17-year-old boy chose for himself made viewers feel heartbroken and haunted by the terrible fate of an unhappy family lacking timely care from parents for their children.
Many psychologists assess that parent discord has a significant impact on children's psychology. The children will feel disappointed and lack the safety in their own home. This also partly leads to children's rebellion, if parents do not take care of and closely follow children's frequent psychological changes.
Advice for the above case, parents should let their children understand that children are the most valuable thing and the top concern of parents. Children are the motivation to help parents improve themselves every day and no matter what happens, both of them will always love and do the best for them.
Whether you are young or old, let's accompany each event in your life. Encourage and guide your child about the things he or she wants to do. Regularly talking to your child will help parents better understand what they need, and become a solid support for them to rely on when facing difficulties and storms in life.
